He’s smart, hilariously funny, and a seriously talented writer. He wrote a short story for school last year, that stunned me with its intensity and intelligence. Not that I don’t know the kid’s smart, but that I didn’t know he had that kind of story in him to write!
My son – also likes games. Online, virtual, xbox, playstation and wii – he delves into these virtual worlds, and masters them. Oh yeah, there have been plenty of “rage quits” as he calls them *snickering to myself as I write*, but he always goes back, doggedly, until he fixes the problem, solves the puzzle, or defeats the Boss monster.
The school says that he is “lacking”.
Because he doesn’t like crowds.
He doesn’t have tons of friends.
He isn’t a “joiner” or much of a “team player”.
Does my smart, funny, talented boy have to be a conformist to make it in this world?
Since when has a conformist STOOD OUT or MADE A STATEMENT?
It’s not in the sheep’s nature to veer off from the herd and be different…
And OnlySon is not a sheep.
I refuse to let the “professionals” pigeonhole my son into a category where he does not belong.
My son will break molds, forge his own paths, and he will NOT conform.
And I don’t have a problem with that.
Personally, I’ve always felt that to be normal – is to be boring. Everyone has something about them that makes them unique, one of a kind, and they should celebrate that – not hide it.
I, too, am a purple alligator in a world full of sheep.
And there’s not a DAMNTHING wrong with that.