Until you’ve been there, until you’ve lived it, learned it, cried from it, raged over it, fought against it, and ultimately laughed in spite of it… you have no idea.
Don’t assume that you’re qualified to give advice to someone going through the fire, if you’ve never been in the flames.
Don’t pretend you understand the storm, when you’ve never stood in its eye, and been bowed by the force of the gale.
And save your anger for your own bad decisions, faults & failings.
The person standing in front of you has their own battle to wage, and you yelling at them to do it the way you think they should belittles only you.
You don’t get it. You never will. Until you stand in their shoes, live their life, and are faced with the exact same situations & consequences – you can shut the fuck right up.