So I couldn’t stay silent. *shrug*
I’ve been in self-imposed silence all day, haven’t spoken a damn word to a single soul, either in person, or on the phone. Why? No reason, simply because there hasn’t been any contact with anyone.
Why don’t I reach out to someone? If I’m not getting contact from others, why not reach out myself?
Because, today, I’m not that person.
Today, I’m the girl who knows that my love life, non-existant that it is, is a fucking joke. That guy I mentioned a few posts back? The maybe, rare, winter thunder I thought I heard?
Yeah, probably just a truck on the bypass rumbling by.
Sure, he’s wicked smart, funny, sure, sure…
And he even admitted we had great chemistry. That he really liked me, & that I was was to talk to. I was “perfect for him in so many ways”…
So, that’s why I dropped to the last place on his priority list, & I haven’t heard anything from him since Monday.
Hell, I’m not on his priority list. If he thought about me at all, it was about how to avoid me.
No problem.
Because I don’t go where I’m not wanted.
Sure, one day I’ll dust myself off & say that maybe I’m ready to try again.
But goddammit.
Getting ghosted twice in two months really fucking sucks.
It hurts when a relationship ends, no matter the circumstance…but what really hurts the most? Is when someone you trust, someone you’ve been honest with betrays you by simply never saying another word. When they shut you out and deny you the common human courtesy of closure…you feel…
Less than human.
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